A Shock in the Morning on Sept. 10

2007.09.10

I went to Tianyi market with Diandian and Zhanglin, and I found this beautiful, beautiful notebook. Then I decided to start my dairy here. I thought if someday when I was gone, my loved one and my children could have something to make them remember me and all good and bad stuff we have gone through. And I want them to know that I love them with all my heart no matter where I am.

Morning, 09:12. I was waken up by a phonecall from my sister Diandian. This phonecall brought me one of the biggest surprises in year 2007. I have to admit that it is really a small world. Here is my story.

As my father wasn't approve of me marrying Amos. Amos and I secretly got married on December 26, 2006. I think that my father will finally understand and respect my decision if he see me being happy with my loved one. So Amos and I just kept quiet. It seemed that we had no choice, but to wait until the right moment came.

Everything has changed since yesterday, however. An acquintance of my mother happened to be one of my aunt's classmates. They met at a party and happened to talk about me. My aunt got super surprised when she knew that I'd already got married without telling my father and my grandmother.

Women always like gossiping. If there was one thing my aunt was known for, it was her ability to gossip. She told every memeber of my family and made everyone nervous. My grandmother was going to call me and blame me for my behaviour, but was stopped by others. I don't want to give comments to my aunt. But I have to say, she's sort of disturbing my life and has sort of hurt me, my father and grandmother. When I shoud get married and whom I should marry aren't her business. Why can't she close her mouth and be a nice person?

I know there is no need to blame her. All I need to do is to figure out one way to make my father accept Amos. I decided not to admit waht had happened was true. However, I'll thell my father my intention of marying Amos and ask him for a permission.

I've been waiting nearly one month to get my first DM on my immigration to Canada. If everything goes well, I can get it at the end of this month. And I got my birtday gift which Amos sent me through canadapost. It's a very cut monkey toy in geisha's costume. And she wears beautiful flower earings. Her name was Vivian Zhang. Well, she's so funny and so cute. That's the best gift I"ve ever received.

Well, that's all for today. IT's already midnight, which means I've got to hit the pillow.